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Categories Psychiatrist, Psychologist, Tips

Is it possible to see a therapist during working hours?

For a visit to the family doctor or dentist, your employer is probably understanding, but what if you go to the therapist every Tuesday morning? How does that work? Are you entitled to leave? And if so, will you be paid for this time?

Special leave

For special events, such as weddings, funerals and anniversaries, moving house, exams, union activities, as well as doctor’s visits, you as an employee can be granted special leave. However, the rules regarding special leave are not regulated by law but are determined by the CAO, the company regulations, or your specific employment contract. This not only states whether you are entitled to special leave but also when, for how long, and for what compensation.

Leave for doctor’s visit

Most employers expect you to schedule doctor’s visits, such as to the family doctor, dentist, or hospital, in your spare time. If this is impossible, for example, because you work full-time, or because the doctor in question is not available at the times you are free, then in most cases, you will be granted leave. However, this leave is not always paid. It is, therefore, possible that you will have to catch up on hours or take days off.

The chance that you will get paid leave for therapy is relatively small. First, according to your collective bargaining agreement, a therapist must be considered a doctor. Officially, a therapist is not a doctor. A psychiatrist is, by the way. Secondly, for therapy, unlike a one-time visit to a doctor or dentist, you have to miss work time repeatedly. Some collective labor agreements have established a maximum number of hours of leave for doctor’s visits, which ultimately makes therapy during working hours impossible.

The rules regarding therapist leave are therefore different for each profession or employer. Not sure which rules apply to you? Ask your employer about this.

What if you don’t get a leave of absence?

If you are in therapy for a long time, it is very annoying if you do not get leave for this. The number of hours of leave you have to take can quickly add up. Do you have a job that allows you to work evenings and weekends (from home if necessary)? If so, discuss with your employer whether you can shift your hours so that you do not have to take time off. After all, your employer also benefits from the fact that you feel better about yourself through therapy, so you have every right to ask for his or her cooperation.

Is that not possible? Then consider online therapy. The Online Therapists have very flexible therapists who also work in the evenings or weekends. This way you can see a therapist outside of work hours.

 

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    Categories Online Therapy, Psychiatrist, Psychologist

    Can you see a therapist after a relationship breakup?

    Going to a therapist for heartbreak is a bit excessive, isn’t it? Maybe you are sitting on the couch with a broken heart right now and you are wondering this. The answer is: therapy after a breakup is absolutely not excessive! If you and your partner have broken up, there is a lot of (emotional) work to do. You have to find your own way again, learn new routines and habits, and rearrange your days. Grief can get in the way of this process. It is therefore not at all strange to get help for this.

    Why is therapy useful after a relationship breakdown?

    The influence that a relationship has on you as a person can be very great. Especially if you have been together with your ex-partner for many years, your identity has undoubtedly become inextricably linked to that of your ex-partner. Who were you before you met him or her? What was really typically “you” back then? Who are you without your ex-partner?

    The length of a broken relationship does not always say everything about its intensity. Even short relationships can have a big impact on a person’s life and identity. A broken relationship sometimes causes such big changes in the life and self-image of both ex-partners that the process of recovering from a breakup can be comparable to the grieving process after the death of a loved one. Therefore, it is best not to underestimate a broken heart.

    Signs that you are not coping with a relationship breakup

    For the first few days after a relationship breakup, you may very well feel like the world has ended. But over time, you should start to see some improvement – no matter how impossible it seemed at the beginning. Is this not happening? Do you feel like you’re not taking any steps forward and are the emotions surrounding the relationship breakup interfering with your daily life? Then online therapy offers a helping hand.

    Symptoms

    • Your ex-partner has become an obsession. You are constantly concerned with what his or her life is like now. You keep trying to contact or win him or her back, or keep a close eye on his or her social media channels.
    • Activities you used to enjoy no longer interest you. The advice to take your mind off things and go do something fun is pointless. You no longer find anything fun, not even a little bit.
    • You suffer from physical complaints, such as insomnia, a loss of appetite, a weak immune system, headaches, or stomach aches.
    • You suffer from sudden insecurity. If you are the abandoned partner, you may suddenly have low self-confidence or self-esteem and be dominated by feelings of fear, despair, and loneliness. This hinders you in your daily activities.
    • You suffer from intense feelings of guilt. If you are the one who left your partner, you may suffer from guilt, regret, or shame. This is often the case when children are involved, or when the abandoned partner is in very bad shape as a result of the breakup.
    • Your new relationship suffers from the experiences of the breakup.

    How can a therapist help after a relationship breakdown?

    Being able to tell your story always helps. A therapist may be one of the few people who does not know your ex-partner, will not take sides, and can help you objectively. In most cases, therapy revolves around learning to deal with intense emotions and finding ways to redefine your own identity.

    Emotions

    Through cognitive behavioral therapy, you learn to regain control over your emotions and thoughts. There is plenty of room for your sadness, despair, or anger, but you learn how to let those emotions come and go without them becoming overpowering.

    Identity

    Next, therapy focuses on you. Who are you? What do you want in life and what do you expect from love? What are your wishes, goals, or dreams? By rediscovering who you really are, separate from your ex-partner, you slowly regain faith in yourself. And that offers the space to think about the future and make new plans. A therapist can give you concrete advice on this, for example, on trying out new hobbies or making new contacts.

    Benefits of psychological help after a relationship breakdown

    Besides dealing with the breakup itself, psychological help offers even more advantages. In therapy, you learn a lot about yourself and you grow on a personal level. You are forced to think about what went wrong in your relationship, what part you played, and how you can prevent this in the future. You learn, for example, where you should set boundaries or how you can communicate better. It also becomes clear to you what you expect from love in the future. This prevents you from making the same mistakes in a future relationship or ending up in a similar relationship dynamic.

    Are you sitting on the couch with a broken heart and don’t know how to proceed? Then talking to a therapist online might be for you. Our online therapists are ready to help you right away. With online therapy, you can start processing your relationship breakup and build a brighter future within days.

     

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      Categories Online Therapy, Psychologist

      What does a therapist pay attention to during sessions?

      A therapist cannot use physical “tools” as easily as a doctor, surgeon, or other medical professional can. Psychological problems are often not visible on the outside. A therapist is therefore dependent on you and the input you give. The more open you are, the more a therapist can help you. But that is quite difficult for many people. A therapist is therefore trained to look at the big picture. So, what else does he or she pay attention to during the sessions in order to help you as best as possible? And what can you expect from online help?

      The intake interview

      The first conversation between therapist and client is all about getting to know each other. The therapist knows absolutely nothing about you, so you are asked to tell them a little more about yourself. Who are you? What do you do? What does your life look like? This information doesn’t have to have anything to do with your symptoms yet. But in this way, the therapist gets an idea of the kind of person he or she has in front of him or her.

      Next, you discuss your request for help. It may be difficult to go into detail right away, but the more information you give, the better the therapist can tailor the treatment plan to your situation. It is difficult for the therapist to assess your behavior, emotions, or thoughts during this introductory phase. Therefore, some therapists also use questionnaires or psychological tests.

      What do you need to pay attention to?

      The introductory meeting is not just for the therapist to get to know you better. Conversely, it is equally important that you get to know the therapist. So pay attention during this first meeting to whether you feel comfortable with the therapist. If not, you can always indicate this.

      The therapy

      The therapy itself consists mostly of conversations. So the information you give is essential, but the therapist also pays attention to your body language, behavior, and emotions during these conversations. How do you react to certain questions? Which topics affect you emotionally? When do you get angry, sad, or remain superficial? The therapist builds on this by asking questions. He or she invites you to go deeper into something or thinks out loud with you about solutions.

      Recurring patterns

      After a few conversations, the therapist can often recognize patterns in what you say, how you think, and how your emotions form. These patterns are often unclear to you, or perhaps you are not aware of them at all. By observing closely and really listening to you, the therapist, as an outsider, can offer a clarifying perspective on recurring (thought) patterns that may be holding you back.

      The fact that a therapist is specially trained to understand and empathize with a client does not mean that he or she is clairvoyant. The success of the therapy depends largely on the amount of information you give and how open you are. A good relationship with your therapist is, therefore, a requirement.

      Are you curious about online therapy? Then feel free to contact our enrollment coordinator.

       

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        Categories Online Therapy, Psychiatrist, Psychologist

        What can a therapist help with?

        If something is wrong with your car, you go to a garage. If the faucet is leaking, you call a plumber. And if your back hurts, you go to a doctor. But with which problem do you actually go to a therapist? Or when do you get online therapy? A therapist helps you with inner problems. Sometimes these problems are hard to recognize or define. So, what can a therapist actually help you with?

        Psychological symptoms

        All kinds of symptoms that have to do with your inner self fall under the expertise of a therapist. These do not have to be all-embracing, serious complaints. Trust your own intuition: do you simply feel that you cannot work something out yourself? Then a therapist can already offer a solution. In fact, the sooner you raise the alarm, the better. Every day a therapist speaks to all kinds of patients with the most diverse complaints. Your request for help is nothing to be ashamed of.

        Common symptoms

        Of course, there are some mental health symptoms or disorders that psychologists deal with on a regular basis. For example:

        • stress, overwork or burn-out
        • lethargy, fatigue, or sleep problems
        • gloominess or depression
        • relationship problems
        • trauma
        • insecurity or fear
        • loss or grief

        Perhaps you recognize yourself in one of these categories, but that does not have to be the case. Vague complaints, such as the feeling of being ‘stuck’ or ‘losing yourself’ are often discussed in a therapist’s office. Issues of meaning also fall into this category of vague complaints.

        How can a therapist help?

        Each therapist has a repertoire of treatment methods at his or her disposal. These include various interviewing techniques and behavioral therapy, but hypnosis is also among the options available to some therapists. Which methods are used depends on the expertise of the therapist, the preference of the patient, and the nature of the symptoms. But regardless of the methods used, a therapist always tries to offer you the following:

        • Knowledge: a therapist can give you reading tips or forward interesting links so that you can increase your knowledge about your specific symptoms.
        • Perspective: a therapist gives you an outsider’s perspective on your situation. When you are in the middle of a situation, it is sometimes difficult to see things clearly. This outsider’s perspective can be very enlightening and give you new insights.
        • Confrontation: over the years you have undoubtedly acquired certain characteristics, habits, or patterns which you have come to take for granted. A therapist confronts you with this and makes you realize that sometimes, if necessary, things can be done differently.
        • Possibilities: a therapist will give you as much concrete advice as possible that you can really get started with. Behaviors to try out, habits to learn, and activities to undertake. In this way, you can actively work on improving your situation.

        What does a therapist need?

        A therapist needs you! Therapy works best if you are as open as possible. This can be incredibly difficult. Especially in the beginning, when you don’t know your therapist very well. Or if you have problems you’d rather not talk about. But a therapist can only work with you if he or she knows who you are, what you think, and how you feel. The effectiveness of the therapy is therefore largely dependent on you.

        Still unsure if a therapist can help you? Just ask! Our registration coordinator knows exactly what is possible and what therapist from our network is best suited for you. If your question falls under the expertise of another therapist, then a therapist can always inform you about this and possibly refer you.

         

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          Categories Online Therapy, Psychologist, Reimbursement

          When is a visit to a therapist reimbursed?

          Good news! Since 2014, psychological help is reimbursed by your basic insurance. This includes the entire treatment. So there is no maximum number of therapy sessions. To be eligible for this reimbursement, however, you must meet a few conditions.

          Conditions for therapy reimbursement

          • You need a referral from a doctor. In most cases, this is your family doctor, but it could also be a company doctor or youth physician. This is the doctor you should contact if you are struggling with psychological problems. The referral serves as ‘proof’ for your health insurance that psychological help is considered medically necessary. A referral is valid for one year.
          • There must be a specific diagnosis. Some specific anxiety disorders have no official diagnosis, so their treatment is not reimbursed. Treatment of sleep disorders and relationship problems is also not reimbursed by most health insurance companies.
          • If you are referred to a mental health institution or mental health practitioner, this institution or practitioner must have a contract with your health insurance company. This is usually the case, but if not, the costs may not be reimbursed or only partially. It may also be the case that you have to pay the costs in advance yourself and then claim them from your health insurance company.

          Treatment by a family doctor or practice support worker

          Minor psychological complaints can be treated by the family doctor or the practice support worker. The advantage of this is that this care falls under general practitioner care and is fully reimbursed, without you having to pay any excess.

          Additional costs

          Even if your treatment is fully reimbursed, health insurance does have a deductible. This excess is €385. If you do not think you will need a long treatment, it is sometimes wiser to pay for a few sessions yourself. This way you do not have to use your deductible. Keep in mind that any prescribed medication is not (fully) reimbursed.

          Will The Online Therapists be reimbursed?

          Online therapy is unfortunately not (yet) reimbursed by health insurers. The advantage of this is that you do not need a referral for The Online Therapists and you will not be put on a waiting list. So you can come to us directly. The rate of our therapists is €95 per 45-minute session. The cost of four sessions is about the same as the contribution from the deductible that you have to pay for regular therapy.

          Because we work with professional therapists, online therapy may be covered by travel or expat insurance. Do you live abroad, but would you like to get therapy in your own language? Please check the terms and conditions of your insurance policy.

           

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